ubifidesibiamor: succubusvenus: I wasn’t asked to a single dance in high school and didn’t have a...

ubifidesibiamor:

succubusvenus:

I wasn’t asked to a single dance in high school and didn’t have a serious romantic relationship until I was 22. And like, yeah that shit hurt when I was younger. I had a lot of fears that I was unlovable and that I didn’t deserve to be happy. And every time I would try to talk to anyone about it, the conversation became, “you’ll find someone”, when it should have been, “you don’t need a relationship or a date, you’re lovable & complete & beautiful on your own”.

So yeah, please normalize young people not dating, and please stop shaming them for it. There’s more to life than romance, despite what the media wants us to think.

First boyfriend was at 27. We’re all but engaged. Your life is not over at 18 or 25.